What Happened to the Sex and the City Girls?

Sex and the City

Let’s start with my favorite character:  Samantha

Who can forget her dirty quips and hilarious take on sex?  Samantha had so much fun with her sexuality and wasn’t the typical woman with relationships.  In my opinion, she made the show.  Unfortunately, Kim Cattrall recently confirmed that she doesn’t want to play Samantha in the future.  Many fans (including me) were very disappointed about this.  But I can’t blame her for wanting to move on.  Currently, she is filming a show called Tell Me A Story, and from what I read about it, it seems like it’s going to be awesome!  It takes the beloved fairytales The Three Little Pigs, Little Red Riding Hood, and Jack and the Beanstalk and gives them a dark and murderous twist.  According to her Instagram, the filming for this show started July 16, 2018.  A release date hasn’t been set yet, but I’m definitely going to check it out when it’s released.  Good luck on the show Kim!

And check out her Instagram:  @kimcattrall


Miranda (played by Cynthia Nixon) was the tough-love type in Sex and the City.  She was a lover and a fighter.  Her relationship with Steve gave us hope that even when things aren’t working out the greatest in a relationship, love defeats all.  Now, Cynthia Nixon is running for governor of New York.  Her democratic platform involves lessening racism and homophobia.  Even though we have come so far in making things equal for all, there is still so much more progress that needs to occur.  I watch a lot of her speeches, and she seems like she would really help the state out.

And check out her Instagram:  @cynthiaenixon


Carrie (played by Sarah Jessica Parker) knew her true love was Mr. Big.  He sure wasn’t easy to get to, though.  He broke her heart so many times in the show, but she kept trying because she couldn’t imagine her life with anyone else.  Now Sarah Jessica is in a show called Divorce.  It’s (obviously) about a couple who have gotten divorced and all the obstacles they encounter in the process.  To me, she’ll always be Carrie Bradshaw.  But that’s good that she keeps on trucking with her acting career.

And check out her Instagram:  @sarahjessicaparker

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And last but not least Charlotte (played by Kristin Davis):  Charlotte was the hopeless romantic in the show.  She was the polar opposite of Samantha.  Her first husband, Trey, was a total disappointment unfortunately.  Her second husband, Harry, treated her like the princess she was.  Now Kristin is doing a wonderful deed by trying to prevent the poaching of the endangered species the elephant.  She’s a huge animal rights activist, and is taking a break from acting to pursue her love of animals.

And check out her Instagram:  @iamkristindavis


How to Approach the First Date

Every person is inevitably nervous when they are first getting to know someone and they will be especially nervous when that someone is a potential romantic interest. One person cannot control what the other person is thinking while on a date, but a good impression can leave a lasting impact. When on a first date, it is most important to try to be yourself regardless of the inevitable first date anxiety, let it show whether you are having a good time or a bad time with the other person, and talk about neutral topics as opposed to topics that elicit strong opinions.

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Being yourself is the most important thing to remember on a first date along with the fact that the other person is just as nervous as you are. The first date should be a low-pressure hangout. You should come into it to see if you could be friends first (Do not show up with flowers…that seems a little too desperate).

Sad and rejected man with a bouquet of flowers

If a woman or a man tries to be someone who they’re not and the relationship ends up working out at first, it will probably fail in the long run. This is because as a relationship progresses, the two people in the relationship continually learn about each other. In order to be happy in a long-term relationship, the goal should be to let the other person in the relationship know everything about you. The relationship cannot be based on a lie because that is torture to both parties. On a first date, one should try to mention the major things that they are interested in and try to bring up topics that seem interesting but not too personal just yet. The point of a first date is to touch upon the surface of one’s true self. If the other person is interested in this “preview”, then a second date is most likely to follow.

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It is very important to let the other person know that you are having a good time if you are enjoying yourself, but it is also important to let them know if you are not having a good time. If you do not have a good time on a first date, then the two of you are probably not suited for each other anyway. Chemistry cannot be forced. If you or the other person is not initially interested at all, they will not be able to force you to have feelings for them and you will not be able to force them to have feelings for you. Even so, it is also important to remember that chemistry takes time to build. If there is a spark on the first date, but not an intense attraction, it is still a good idea to try a second date. When the other person’s personality clicks with your personality, the chemistry feelings increase and the attraction also increases.

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When talking about your interests, it is a good idea to mostly talk about neutral topics at first. Neutral topics are things that will most likely not cause arguments or misunderstandings. Good neutral topics include, but are not limited to, dreams or aspirations, current and past pleasures, favorite movies and television shows, and careers. These topics will evoke good emotions and give the other person a glance at what type of person you are. They should say how they relate to your experiences and then you can see what type of person they are also. The worst topic to bring up and will most likely ensure that you will never see the other person again is your relationship past. This will chase the person away because this shows that you have a lot of emotional baggage. Other big topics that should be avoided are political beliefs, religious beliefs, major personal problems, and feelings about money. You are probably not going to be able to change how people feel about these topics and so they will probably cause arguments or misunderstandings.


First dates are the predictor of how the relationship will be if a relationship eventually does form and grow. The most important thing to remember is to be yourself and to not pretend to be something or someone who you’re not. If the other person does not like who or how you are when you are being yourself, then they are not worthy of your time anyway. Make sure to let it show if you’re having a good time or a bad time on the date. Honesty is key. The conversations are pivotal to how you both will feel about each other. If you bring up topics that cause strong opinions on either side, there can be misunderstandings or arguments. Neutral topics are the best topics to talk about on a first date. If the relationship does continue to grow, eventually strong opinions will come up and these can be worked through if there are differences. Anxiety is inevitable for each person on the date. No matter how nervous you are, the other person is also nervous. You both are trying to make good impressions on each other. You both are judging each other. If it is meant to be, it will happen. If it is not, do not force it to. The divorce rate is high enough as it is and life is too short to waste time on something for no reason.

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